The Truth about Mental illness

Mental illness
The Truth About Mental illness

Many people still fear and misunderstand people who have been diagnosed with mental illness. People with mental or psychological disorders are often perceived to be potentially dangerous, or, at the very least, capable of causing physical harm to others. Psychiatric conditions take on many forms, just like physical illnesses do. In general, a person with a psychological disorder is confused and does not have a normal process of thinking or reasoning.

A person with a psychological disorder does not speak, behave, and relate with orders in a normal fashion. Mental illness often results in a lower capacity for coping with the ordinary demands of everyday life. Mental illnesses can affect persons of any age, gender, race, religion, or income. This illness is not a result of personal weakness, lack of character, or poor upbringing. Although symptoms of mental illnesses can sometimes be disturbing, recovery is usually possible in almost all cases.

It is human nature to fear what we do not understand. Aside from the fear that is usually elicited in a person who encounters a person with mental illness brings fear to people, not to mention that it carries a certain stigma that generates negativity when talking about mental illness. Because of this stigma, many people hesitate to get help for a mental health problem for fear of being ostracized or looked down upon. It is unfortunate that this happens because effective treatment exists for most mental illnesses. What is worse is that the stigma experienced by people with mental illness can be more destructive than the illness itself.

Myths are incorporated with such mental health problems. People should know the truth, for they will continue to deny the existence of mental illness or even avoid the topic entirely. They say that people with mental illness are dangerous and violent. While some mentally disturbed individuals have committed crimes or have hurt other people, it is certainly untrue that all persons with psychological problems are capable of harming others around them. Many people with psychological problems are themselves victims of violence.

Another myth says that people with mental illness are less intelligent than others. Many studies have shown that most mentally ill people have average or even above-average intelligence. Mental illness can affect anyone regardless of their intelligence, income level, or social class. This illness is not a character flaw and has nothing to do with being weak or lacking in willpower.

Although people with this kind of illness can play a big part in their recovery, they did not choose to become ill. Psychologically ill individuals are not lazy but only simply cannot snap out of their illness. This illness is not a single, rare disorder like other people say. It consists of a broad classification of many disorders including depression, anxiety, personality disorders, schizophrenia, eating disorders, and brain disorders.

Conclusion.

Words can hurt people who suffer from mental illness. Words such as crazy, psycho, or wacko can keep the stigma of mental illness alive. These words offend people with mental health problems. Even if many people use these words without intending any harm, it is still cruel to make fun of someone and mock him, unfortunately, his mental state.

How To Beat Depression

How to beat depression
Depressive state

In this article, I write about my personal experiences with depression, and about how I have learned to cope and to even eradicate it. I am sure that I am not alone in the fact that I have regular periods of my life when I am depressed, but knowing this fact does not make it any easier for me. I hope you enjoy reading this article.

I have recently spoken to my parents about my struggle with depression. Depression seems to be a dominant trait in my family, as said by my mum.

Just last week, I  suffered from a severe bout of this depression. However, from it was a truckload of lessons.  This period of my life seemed like the dark tunnel I always heard about. It was one to another. All hope seemed lost so I resented having a night out with my friends. The plan was to get drunk.

The next day, I felt really ill and hungover after having a very late night and as planned a huge amount of alcohol. I struggled to stay awake the whole day and as the day wore on I became even more depressed. I was overwhelmed by so much negativity in my head and even the fluids flowing in my body didn’t act otherwise.

Alcohol is never a remedy to depression, not even in excess.

When I was speaking to my parents about my latest period of anxiety and depression, their advice was very relieving. Thinking through every aspect of my life that I wasn’t impressed about was the first step they gave me. Talking about it and proffering solutions got me a step closer to my recovery and that was quite helpful.

It has been an attitude I have inculcated but not an easy one. Speaking up about my fears and having them starved while I focus on the positive side of life can only aid a happier and less depressing journey of life.

Depression, I will never want to experience that ever again. The sleepless nights, fatigue, low motivation, self-denial can take a toll on one’s health and productivity.

Conclusion

Seeking help and counsel, surrounding myself with families and friends that encourage and support me, staying positive and optimistic are ways I have devised to enjoy and live a depression-free life.

7 Things Every Man Should Know About The Prostate

Prostate cancer awareness
Blue ribbon symbolic for prostate cancer awareness campaign and men’s health in doctor’s hand

Next time you see your father, your uncle, or any older gentleman over age 60 or so, ask them about their prostate. If you know the guy well enough, and he feels comfortable enough around you (some would say too comfortable), he will surely share a whole litany of the common prostate problems that are troubling him, or have troubled him, or will trouble him in the near future. That’s because an enlarged prostate, benign prostatic hypertrophy, and even prostate cancer can be in the cards for every man past a certain age.

It’s the scary but true fact of getting old as a man. For instance, every man should know that prostate cancer is one of the most common prostate problems out there. It tops the list of cancers that affect men, happening in nearly as many men, roughly speaking, as breast cancer in women. Prostate cancer doesn’t get the press that breast cancer does, however, probably because most men would rather not speak about what’s happening down there.

The second thing most men don’t but should know is exactly what that prostate is.

A prostate is actually part of a man’s sexual organs. Located just below the bladder in a man, wrapped around the urethra, the prostate is about the size of a walnut. Its main job in the birds-and-bees scheme of things is to add fluid to your sperm during ejaculation.

And most of the time, men don’t even realize they have a prostate because it’s a hidden internal organ, but all men find out quickly what and where their prostate is when they suffer a common prostate problem.

For instance, all men should know that prostate issues aren’t just for older men. Men under 50 can get prostatitis, or an extremely painful infection of their prostate. This is a swelling of the prostate that can cause fever, a burning sensation during urination, and fatigue.

And all men over 50 should be aware of their number one most common prostate problem, which is an enlarged prostate, or benign prostatic hypertrophy. This benign, or nonfatal condition, is actually far more common in older men than prostate cancer, which should give some relief to older men when they know it.

Men should all be aware of the symptoms of benign prostatic hypertrophy, such as leaking and dribbling during urination, a weak urine stream, trouble getting started with urination, and even small amounts of blood in the urine.

Conclusion

And though benign prostatic hypertrophy is more common than prostate cancer, men should be aware that the two can go hand in hand. It’s not always the case, and many men with an enlarged prostate will never develop into cancer. But it’s good to keep your eyes out for both because they can have similar symptoms.

WHAT IS WELLNESS?

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Wellness

The level of spirituality we hold with ourselves is one way in which we establish some wellness of mind. Spirituality, on any level, is a way to cleanse the mind and refresh the soul. Wellness is not only about the mind, though. It is a state of our whole being. Wellness is a state of mind, body, and soul.

Meditation

Meditation is a good way to achieve wellness for your mind. It provides you with the opportunity to reflect on the inside, to relax, to regroup. It gives you a chance to listen to your inner voice without the clutter of life around you.

Through the practices of spirituality and meditation, we have the capacity to maintain our minds as well as our bodies. The mind is a complex mechanism, and it can become overpowered and frazzled if we don’t give ourselves time to care for it.

Our mind works through various stages of operation, known as brainwaves. As we pass through times of our day and activities therein, our brainwave activity changes. Through these varying degrees of brain activity, our brain rests itself, and is therefore able to manage all of the information we collect.

When we don’t allow time for this process to occur, through rest and relaxation, our mind cannot continue in a state of wellness, just like our bodies can’t be healthy and well without rest.

Those who practice alternative and holistic medicine believe that the energy that flows through our bodies exudes from our minds also. They believe it is the main form of transportation for our nervous system to carry out communication.

Some techniques we can use to energize our minds include breathing techniques, music, and aromatherapy. These things allow us to reflect on our day and give our mind an opportunity to rest and replenish itself.

It is important to regularly make time to sustain our mental wellness, even as we make every effort to maintain our physical wellness. You can do both at once, too. We can relax our minds as we take a brisk twenty-minute walk at lunchtime. OR we can build muscle strength as we meditate during yoga.

Conclusion

Taking any opportunity to regroup is even the smallest thing, like listening to some soothing music, or relaxing in a warm bathtub will help your mind relax and re-energize. Advantageous for your wellness of mind. Even the smallest thing, like listening to some soothing music, or relaxing in a warm bathtub will help your mind relax and re-energize

HEALTHY PRACTICES TO IMPROVING A HEALTHY SEX LIFE

One’s sexual well-being goes hand in hand with your overall mental, physical, and emotional health, whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do such as communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle etc. you can do to get your sex life back on track.

Sex entails a whole lot of emotions, from love to excitement, to tenderness, longing, anxiety and disappointment with each of these reactions varying as sexual experiences differs in the course of a sex life spanning over several decades amongst individuals, likewise, the physical transformations your body undergoes as you age also have a major influence on one’s sexuality as declining hormone levels, changes in neurological and circulatory functioning etc. may lead to sexual problems.   However, there’s great news, as treating sexual problems is easier now than ever before with revolutionary medications and professional therapists available if you need them.

In the case of minor sexual issues or you just want general principles to work with, here are a few tips and adjustments in no particular order that you can try and implement at home in your lovemaking and relationship overall:

Talking to your partner: Good communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship, establishing a dialogue is the first step not only to a better sex life. Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances as when sexual issues occur, feelings of hurt, shame, guilt, disappointment and resentment can set in and stop such conversations. In dealing with this, finding the right time to talk without criticizing your partner is extremely important as the aim is to solve the issue not apportion blames. Confiding with your partner about changes in your body, as well as being honest about it and any other thing is very crucial between partners.

Never equate love with sexual performance: Create an atmosphere of love, show care and tenderness always towards your partner; touch and kiss often, don’t blame yourself or your partner for your sexual difficulties instead focus on maintaining emotional and physical intimacy in your relationship.

Always maintain physical affection: Even if you’re tired, upset or tensed, about a problem, engaging in kissing and cuddling is essential for maintaining an emotional and physical bond, it shows your partner that regardless of what, you are always there.

Educate yourself: There are plenty of good self-help materials and resources available that can apply to you or your partner’s issues, or rather be of help to improve yourself; use them to help you and your partner stay informed and become better.

Always compliment your partner: Complimenting your partner can be a way of letting them know they are thought about and appreciated, especially when your partner’s love language is “Words of affirmation.” Value-based compliments are also considered important because you’re directly complimenting your partner’s character,

Be spontaneous: As regards to lovemaking, using foreplay and trying different positions not only adds interest to lovemaking but can also help overcome some sexual problems. For example, did you know that there is increased stimulation to the G-spot when a man enters his partner from behind and can help your woman reach orgasm? Now you know, also, having romantic treats can aid strengthen the bond between you two emotionally, remember sex entails emotions too.

Have a good balance: Stress and the busyness of life are other factors that affect sexual intimacy, always find the time to relax, go on outings, and do something soothing together before having sex, such as playing a game or going out for a nice dinner.

Abstain a bit: Practice abstinence for a couple of days, a weekend, or a week as abstinence does make the heart grow fonder and it’s a surefire way to improve sex as it makes your next encounter with your lover even more exciting.

Maintaining good health: Remember, your sexual well-being goes hand in hand with your overall mental, physical, and emotional health, therefore, the same healthy habits you rely on to keep your body in shape also shapes up your sex life, drink water regularly, take vitamins and engage in exercises.

Engage in kegel exercises: Kegel exercises are simple clench-and-release exercises that you can do to strengthen the muscles of your pelvic floor, as these muscles support your uterus, bladder, small intestine, and rectum. Kegels keep the muscles fit and help even improve your orgasms; they can also prevent or control urinary incontinence and other pelvic floor problems.

Practice self-care: Self and proper hygiene are highly essential as regards to one’s love life, please, no one would enjoy anything lovemaking in a dirty environment or with one having bad hygiene. Look good, smell nice for your partner as these are known to promote positive attraction towards each other.

Don’t give up: If none of your efforts seems to work, don’t give up hope, talking to your doctor or a therapist can often determine the cause of your sexual problem and may be able to identify effective treatments.

The most important thing is doing things right with your partner and staying true as the understanding of yourself, your thoughts about what constitutes a satisfying sexual connection, and your relationship with your partner are key factors in your ability to develop and foster a fulfilling sex life.

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Welcome to Men’s Wellness Circle blog. We are a community that was conceived to help men embrace holistic wellness. Research shows that 70% of men are less likely to seek medical attention compared to women.

At Men’s Wellness Circle, we have created a circle that focuses on not just your physical health, but your emotional health as well as mental health. Your all-round wellness is our priority. We are here to guide you on the journey to look good, feel good, and live well.